extracted from Singapore's premier health & beauty magazine,EZYHEALTH & BEAUTY.

Love, for women, doesn't really mean getting everything she wants or being bonded by unconditional love.

Rather, it is to be understood at an emotional level.
it is having common interests which she can share and entrust with her partner.

Loving a woman should be because of who she is,not because of who she should be or what others want her to be.

About Being Loved:

When a lady is showered with love and affection,she takes it that she is unique enough to provide meaning to someone else's life.

She feels special because the opposite sex notices her.this perceived attraction reinforces in her that she is able to make a difference in another person's life.

Such a positive mindset makes a woman feel confident not only about herself but also where she stands in her life.

It evoked from her desire to pass on this good feeling to others.'others' here would include her partner, her children, her family or friends.

Being loved also gives meaning to life.life for a woman consists of safety, security and fun.it is full of adventurous and positive surprises.

She longs to be protected and cared for.a woman sees security as a place where she can be herself without being judged or compared to.

Security for her is in knowing that she had someone behind her to catch her when she falls or to share her good and bad times together.

Being loved gives ladies a sense of belonging, which provides joy and happiness to her, and translates to fulfillment and achievement.

To be part of someone else's life, to be in the role of a wife or a mother makes her see life with passion and satisfaction.

Life, the way she sees it, is priceless and should be cherished forever.

Wooohoo~

hmm. it's thursday lo.. =) finally..

i'm still feelin down.. its seriously been so long since i have the feelin of wakin up in the mornin and still feelin unhappy or should i said bothered by stuffs..

it seriously suckss..

=( *sobx..

i wish im gone

hmmmm...
it hurts when the one u tot should understand u is the one who doesnt understand u at all...
should i say no one understands mi or should i say they understand mi too well?

no matter how much effort is put in .. i will always be the last in everyone mind..
i just have no one...

29 Sep 2008

hahaha.. im bored to death..

reason being.. my cousin is still in my place and thus im being restricted.. hahaha omg this is my hse but i cannot go wherever i want to.. haha sounds as if my house is damn big rite? =p

this week will be a shiok shiok week cos with the holidays and celebrations going on.. time will be spent much more meaningfully.. yeah i hope it's gonna be fun at both the girls 21st bday.. which is like finally after hearin them discussin abt these n that since months ago...

on the other hand...hahaha im so super broke too la.. left with 100 to my next pay which is 12 oct... anybody can help mi with this financial crisis? ( look for a financial consultant =x tryin to be lame)

hmmm.. heheh today im super slack at work can.. lolx.. first 3 periods i was bascially doing very simple gammar questions with the class of 43 students as the teacher was absent so i took over.. than i went back office to msn till my recess duty and msn again!!! lolx.. than my last two period was even slacker.. we surf youtube online in class.. cos the kids were all not in the mood for studying.. lolx we watched somee malay's ghost stories n etc.. lolx.. i wonder if the principal or who will to walk pass.. i just die la!

yeah.. anyway lasst friday i met up with my sports camp mates after so long... we went from orchard to bugis than to holland village..heheh it was great to knw that we're all still bonded tgt and i really had fun in their presence although they love to tease mi all the time saying my brain is the size of a pea!! zzz hahah anyway when we're all tgt we speak in english la.. lolx.. cool rite? lolx actl ike onli laa...

supposed to have onli 5 ppl meetin up but slowly slowly few ppl manage to join us at a later time and thus, it was consider as one of the most successful outting so far with all the memebers meetin up... and also they are like complaining that im always busy la =x opps... and ya also they are like askin abt who my bf is.. lolx... the later part of the outting ends at essential brew at holland village... =) hopefully, we'll be meetin up soon again with other ppl from others grp! like clemence n all..

hmmm..anyway it's always seems like i have loads of friends around mi but seriously when im feelin down.. im always stuck with whom i should turn to for a listening ear..its not because all my friends are selfish n do not wants to listen to mi.. i knw that those ppl who will be there for mi will always be there to listen but its more like at times i just dun feel like bothering them cos i knw im a problematic person ( filled with troubles and worries)

A nice song~

hmm..

it was actually a waste that my entry ytd was gone.. cos i really typed a great amount of stuffs la.. lolx fated!!

funny rite.. how will u be feeling when u realised that u been living for the past 22yrs n do not knw wat is actually happening around u.. especially in ur family.. u make wild guesses and found answers thru a little bit of this n that.. why isnt there someone who can be able to talk or tell mi all these stuffs...? hmmm...i knw i have always been sayin this all this time.. but still i haven really have an answer.. and i believe that i will never knw the truth even till the day im gone.. hahaa.. =) dont worry im nt feelin emo or anything.. this are just my tots...

anyway.. things haven been quite rite for mi n him these dayss..suddenly i just feel that the feeling i used to have for him is never like the same..cos of the words he said really hurts mi..but anyway we have already tok things out.. he said that the other day while i was asleep he said some stuffs to mi..and those were the sweetest things he ever said.. but anyway i was soundly asleep so i nv knw wat was said.. lolx.. guess it's really touching when u were never expectin to hear things u have been expecting to hear ba... i hope im nt being confusing.. hahaa

grrr.. 7 more weeks of teaching.. i hope it ends quickly cos being in the sch on a term4 is seriously bad.. cos its already like examinations week..everythin seems to be so messy.. u do nt knw where u are heading.. and the worst part is having to practise english with a grp of weakest student when ur english sucks totally as well..but than nvm. try to look at the brighter side.. i can use the time to improve mine as well.. DUN GIVE UP ba..!!

wtf

i typed a long post and its gone.. faint.. dun wana retype le..

nitez..