extracted from Singapore's premier health & beauty magazine,EZYHEALTH & BEAUTY.

Love, for women, doesn't really mean getting everything she wants or being bonded by unconditional love.

Rather, it is to be understood at an emotional level.
it is having common interests which she can share and entrust with her partner.

Loving a woman should be because of who she is,not because of who she should be or what others want her to be.

About Being Loved:

When a lady is showered with love and affection,she takes it that she is unique enough to provide meaning to someone else's life.

She feels special because the opposite sex notices her.this perceived attraction reinforces in her that she is able to make a difference in another person's life.

Such a positive mindset makes a woman feel confident not only about herself but also where she stands in her life.

It evoked from her desire to pass on this good feeling to others.'others' here would include her partner, her children, her family or friends.

Being loved also gives meaning to life.life for a woman consists of safety, security and fun.it is full of adventurous and positive surprises.

She longs to be protected and cared for.a woman sees security as a place where she can be herself without being judged or compared to.

Security for her is in knowing that she had someone behind her to catch her when she falls or to share her good and bad times together.

Being loved gives ladies a sense of belonging, which provides joy and happiness to her, and translates to fulfillment and achievement.

To be part of someone else's life, to be in the role of a wife or a mother makes her see life with passion and satisfaction.

Life, the way she sees it, is priceless and should be cherished forever.

Wooohoo~

hmm. it's thursday lo.. =) finally..

i'm still feelin down.. its seriously been so long since i have the feelin of wakin up in the mornin and still feelin unhappy or should i said bothered by stuffs..

it seriously suckss..

=( *sobx..

i wish im gone

hmmmm...
it hurts when the one u tot should understand u is the one who doesnt understand u at all...
should i say no one understands mi or should i say they understand mi too well?

no matter how much effort is put in .. i will always be the last in everyone mind..
i just have no one...

29 Sep 2008

hahaha.. im bored to death..

reason being.. my cousin is still in my place and thus im being restricted.. hahaha omg this is my hse but i cannot go wherever i want to.. haha sounds as if my house is damn big rite? =p

this week will be a shiok shiok week cos with the holidays and celebrations going on.. time will be spent much more meaningfully.. yeah i hope it's gonna be fun at both the girls 21st bday.. which is like finally after hearin them discussin abt these n that since months ago...

on the other hand...hahaha im so super broke too la.. left with 100 to my next pay which is 12 oct... anybody can help mi with this financial crisis? ( look for a financial consultant =x tryin to be lame)

hmmm.. heheh today im super slack at work can.. lolx.. first 3 periods i was bascially doing very simple gammar questions with the class of 43 students as the teacher was absent so i took over.. than i went back office to msn till my recess duty and msn again!!! lolx.. than my last two period was even slacker.. we surf youtube online in class.. cos the kids were all not in the mood for studying.. lolx we watched somee malay's ghost stories n etc.. lolx.. i wonder if the principal or who will to walk pass.. i just die la!

yeah.. anyway lasst friday i met up with my sports camp mates after so long... we went from orchard to bugis than to holland village..heheh it was great to knw that we're all still bonded tgt and i really had fun in their presence although they love to tease mi all the time saying my brain is the size of a pea!! zzz hahah anyway when we're all tgt we speak in english la.. lolx.. cool rite? lolx actl ike onli laa...

supposed to have onli 5 ppl meetin up but slowly slowly few ppl manage to join us at a later time and thus, it was consider as one of the most successful outting so far with all the memebers meetin up... and also they are like complaining that im always busy la =x opps... and ya also they are like askin abt who my bf is.. lolx... the later part of the outting ends at essential brew at holland village... =) hopefully, we'll be meetin up soon again with other ppl from others grp! like clemence n all..

hmmm..anyway it's always seems like i have loads of friends around mi but seriously when im feelin down.. im always stuck with whom i should turn to for a listening ear..its not because all my friends are selfish n do not wants to listen to mi.. i knw that those ppl who will be there for mi will always be there to listen but its more like at times i just dun feel like bothering them cos i knw im a problematic person ( filled with troubles and worries)

A nice song~

hmm..

it was actually a waste that my entry ytd was gone.. cos i really typed a great amount of stuffs la.. lolx fated!!

funny rite.. how will u be feeling when u realised that u been living for the past 22yrs n do not knw wat is actually happening around u.. especially in ur family.. u make wild guesses and found answers thru a little bit of this n that.. why isnt there someone who can be able to talk or tell mi all these stuffs...? hmmm...i knw i have always been sayin this all this time.. but still i haven really have an answer.. and i believe that i will never knw the truth even till the day im gone.. hahaa.. =) dont worry im nt feelin emo or anything.. this are just my tots...

anyway.. things haven been quite rite for mi n him these dayss..suddenly i just feel that the feeling i used to have for him is never like the same..cos of the words he said really hurts mi..but anyway we have already tok things out.. he said that the other day while i was asleep he said some stuffs to mi..and those were the sweetest things he ever said.. but anyway i was soundly asleep so i nv knw wat was said.. lolx.. guess it's really touching when u were never expectin to hear things u have been expecting to hear ba... i hope im nt being confusing.. hahaa

grrr.. 7 more weeks of teaching.. i hope it ends quickly cos being in the sch on a term4 is seriously bad.. cos its already like examinations week..everythin seems to be so messy.. u do nt knw where u are heading.. and the worst part is having to practise english with a grp of weakest student when ur english sucks totally as well..but than nvm. try to look at the brighter side.. i can use the time to improve mine as well.. DUN GIVE UP ba..!!

wtf

i typed a long post and its gone.. faint.. dun wana retype le..

nitez..

hahah.. found it!

okiee. thanks to HERMAN CHAN!!! i managed to found the post i claimed missing back.. anyway just posting it again but anyway its all outdated posting la.. lolxx!! lame mi

it's so tiring to be working.. lolx but what else can we choose? even if we choose to study now we still cant avoid the fact that we still have to work at the end of all these.. lolx..

so fast, it marked the last day for the weekend again.. grr another 5 more days of work than to a new weekend... lolx can't wait for it to happen..

well.. thats life...
sometimes it's just so meaningless...
we cant do anythin to make it better.. lolx

saturday activities are gettin less to lesser and mayb to a stop? i hope not sooo...
after a hard time of tryin to come up with places to go.. from 3pm i suppose..
ended up we only met up at 10plus at nite with just a few ppl.. mi yl wee herman n cw..
we went marina for our late nite movie.. mirrors.. was feelin tired when watchin the movie so as usual... i took naps thru-out hahahah =x
after that we went to geylang for some short entertainment.. hahaha need nt explain what we did there ba cos its just the usual onee..

than today.. woke up early in the morning and headed to chinatown there for dim dum.. the restuarant is called red star... "hong xing" hahaha.. =p the dim sum there is just so so onli but the crowd there was a lot despite it being located at a rather wulu place.. lolx.. than we went to chinatown to walk and than to vivo... was a tiring day. the moment we reached back home.. all of us laze on the bed and took a long nap.. lolx! we're all pigs....

had steamboat for dinnner.. the usual one..
usually when it comes to steamboat, ppl will expect to be celebrating some special occasions of wat.. but than in wee's place, steamboat is not.. one week the mother can prepare 2 to 3 times of steamboat as it is easier..

therefore now, the moment we heard it will be steamboat for dinnner, all of us will go -_-.. but still no choice..

okie.. i shall stop here le...

...hahah i dun wan to work tml...

busy n tired~

thursday loo!

tml will be friday.. pls pray hard for mi that saturday i need nt have to go back sch for the parent's meeting.. cos the teachers said they will be callin up the parent instead of meetin them up.. hopefully the sch wun be giving mi other duties to do... =)

yeah... been busy lately.. cos needa prepare worksheets of my own for the children to do.. done the math worksheets ytd but i do nt have soft copy of it because the stupid document that i save was nt saved in properly la.. very sianz cos that one takes up a lot time to do it as i needa draw those diagrams... *faint*
now im busy preparing the english worksheet..
seriously, i duno how to teach grammars la.. =x

anyway this sch is kinda different cos we get to choose the subject we wanna choose..
i chose math for my next yr.. hopefully they will give mi that la.. lolx..

been in the sch for the 2nd week for now.. lolx realised that kids are really kinda easy to handle.. they are just so innocent..sometimes it just makes u wonder if they actually knw wat is going around this world or all that they knw is they have to come to sch study n do hw.. what else do they actually learn in sch?

the lower primary loves to complain over small little stuffs without fail and sometimes u just have to try to solve it despite its just a small matter like "he take my pencil put on that table" cos parents are really protective these days..

the upper primary on the other hand will nv complain.. because they deal the problem themselves by shouting and sometimes fighting each other for as long as they want to win..

all this are just parts n parcels of life...

anyway im evil la.. my this friend have been tryin to call mi for the past 6 days and i been ignoring the call.. LOLX

Tagboard

hahah.. i have a tagboard for my blog lo..

thanks to hermites.. yeah.. despite him being irritating at times, he's still the best =p opps

feel free to leave a tag okie.. although those ppl who knw my blog are just those few.. lolx

love~

somehwere...somehow..

i wonder who still bothers readin my blog when i dun even blog frequently.. and moreover my entries speaks abt rubbish stuffs.. lolx..

okie. once again, i change a blog.. hahaha for the sake of adding a tagobard to it and also i had transfer a few post from the previous one.. =p

~somewhere over the rainbow... way up high...

lalala~ its monday once again, so what does it tells u? ya.. it tells u that its just the beginning or the week and that tml will be tuesday..hahaha

feeling bored.. lolx i actually slept from 3pm to 6pm once i got home after work.. lolx.. thus im feelin kinda awake rite now.. pampered life.. but than meaningless life as well.. at least for the time being i hope..

ytd was the lantern festival, nth much really. had family gatherings at wee's place.. bbq outside the house with the cousins and also had food from those bai bai de..its kinda a tradition for them to celebrates whereby all relatives will drop by..lighted lanterns will be hang from wee's hse to his uncle hse some sort as decorations ba.. lolx..my favourite food of the day will be the vegetarian shark fins.. is really nice..*wai po was the chef.. must master it soon so i can cook it for all of u to try.. really tasty.. it's even better than those high class shark fins and the ingredients is consider costy okie.. trust mi it is nice!!! =)

hmm it's the mid of the month again.. grr.. its scary how time files.. in no time we'll all be old, no longer having the strenght to do so much things anymore...



*a penny for my thoughts*

wonders of the world

it really amazing whats life is all abt..

it even amazing how the ppl revolve around our lifes..

everythin is amazing especially when u start pondering abt things...

i been doin so lately, but all my questions does nt have an answer..

i been walkin home from sch for the past two days.. when i walk i looked around the surrounding.. its kinda cool cos everythin seems so peaceful, all i have to do is just walk till i reach my destination..

is it really impt to have an aim in life? why?

is there anyone in this world who is totally free from worries n troubles?
i dunno.. do u?
hmmm...

Sunlight

hmm..
new start at the new sch today.. alrite not good not bad just that the sch itself its kinda old yeah but its oki la its just the temp building.. i suppose teaching will be kinda different from now on.. cos unlike teachin p2 student, instead i will be taken p5 n p6 em3 classes... its stressful of cos as the maths topics im kinda rusty at them already.. grrr its kinda like mi revising again for my math durin pri time.. okie.. other than that, my class will onli have nt more than 20 students becos the classes im takin are actually spilt up.. so its kinda like sharin students with the form teacher haha.. weird rite.. i think one of my math p5 class i'll onli have 7 students, sounds more like tuition class rite =x hahah lame.. oki less stressful n more interactions? perhaps..

okie.. life.. i dunno wat to say.. just feel so messed up.. although nth big is goin on but i just feel that my life is nt sort out properly.. i dunno wat is the aim in my life.. im just leaving in my own world or livin in an empty shell..it just gets irritating at times and gets even more irritating when u dun even knw why u feel so irritated.. okii im lame...but still i needa thanks mr sunlight for those great inspirations.. i guess its kinda somehow change my tot a bit abt life ba.. hmmm.. yeah i suppose..

where's my angel?

It's just so Random

sometimes i really do feel that no one in this whole world understand me..

nt even my parent or worst nt even myself..

there are really time i stop and ponder for a while... n asked myself who am i.. and i really dunno the answer..

it sucks to be me........
it hurts to be me........

a few words that means a million

thanks =)

im so grateful to have great friends there to listen n share n nt forgotting my precious him.. din expect him to say all those words to me.. really so touch n motivated..
i guess life is nt always fair.. when people have a choice to make.. they dun make the rite choice.. but when we dun have a choice to make we will make a fuss abt it.. i guess this is human ba.. be it good or bad we still have tings to comment abt..
lets us all nt regret the choice that we have made or is making.. wat's most impt is the journey to it...

we should all learn to look at the brighter side..
okiee..anyway my genting cum kl trip is cfm!! will be leaving on aug 7 by the coach... lolxx 9 plus ba.. i shall look forward to it and forget abt all the unhappiness that have been happening around mi..
yeahh.. i knw i can be strong cos i have everyone with mi!!

*my dad told mi this.. its okie.. everything doesnt matter as long as we're all healthy.. =) (sorry for nt being able to express for love to u.. but i seriously love u too.. )

watch ur own behaviours, who cares abt the others

Each and every individual one of us have our own character,attitude n etc.. this is who we are..how we are..its within us..no one can change but all they can do is give advice in how to improve... and therefore, if u can't change ones behaviour blah blah.. than just accept it..

This should be human nature..we always tend to look into ppl's bad points especially those whom we hate =x but we often neglect our own behaviour as well..thus the conclusion is.. dun be bothered by others..just watch ur own butt.. lolx just suddenly have this thought that came across my mind.. lolx

NEUTRAL RITE? lolx.. sometimes cannot be blame.. its seriosuly nt we wanna be - de.. is ppl do thingss that is really nt by law lolx.. opps im nt being neutral le.. lolx.. xw.. rememeber pull mi.. although i am heavy =x

okie..anyway i think at times when u are stuck up with some probs and u do not knw how to solve or starting to lose confident in urself.. a word from someone u knw might serve as a great motivation to u..just remember this, no matter what happens even if the world were to crash n its the end of the world, friends will still remain as friends n the ppl who loves u will still be loving u.. TREASURE n CHERISH!